How to get a threesome right

I honestly don’t think that threesome are for beginners, says London based sex therapist Anna Nilsson. When I worked for London escorts, I had date with guys who told me about threesome horror stories. Some people really seem to enjoy them but I don’t think that they are right for a lot of people. Unless, you have a lot of experience, I don’t think you should try threesomes, and I do know that a lot of London escorts agree with me. They are not for everybody, and even the experienced sometimes get it really wrong when they try to enjoy a threesome.

So, what can go wrong with a threesome?

There are a whole heap of things that can go wrong with a threesome. I am always advising London escorts to be careful when their boyfriends suggest a threesome. After all, there is a certain amount of emotional involvement as well and we should never forget that. It is all too easy to forget that sex is linked to our emotions, and even London escorts forget this when they are with their partners. You may enjoy a threesome with one person, but when an other offers to join the action, it might be totally different.

Lots of Swingers are into threesomes and sort of mini orgies. I know that London escorts are often asked to attend Swingers parties, but of course, this is something the girls don’t do in their professional capacity. Most of the London escorts that I know may go to Swingers parties with friends, but I am pretty sure that they don’t take their boyfriends. That could easily spell the end of relationship before you know it. I have been to a few Swingers parties and people seem to enjoy them, but there are plenty of people who are uncomfortable as well.

If, you want to get a threesome right, it is important to trust and be emotionally comfortable with the other two parties. Some of the girls at escorts in London who are into threesomes with their boyfriends, often bring a girlfriend or a male escort they know. If you are friends you can sort of say that you just want to enjoy yourself, and I think that is what most London escorts do. They see it as a bit of fun and sort of just enjoy it for what it is, I think that is okay.

So, clearly the trick to threesomes is getting it right in your head first of all. If you can do that, I think it is fine but otherwise you should avoid it. The escorts in London who like to play this way are also aware of sexual health and always make sure they use protection. Especially if you are engaging in things like DP’s or other games that are penetrative. Think twice before you play this way and always make sure that you have a “break word” i.e. a way of telling the others you would like to stop. Planning a threesome is crucial.

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